Perfect?(Remixed And Reposted)

After I finished my last blog I wanted to celebrate by going for a half-century (50 mile) ride for some inspiration. Typically this time a year the highs in the South are around the mid-50s, but on this particular day I knew it would be in the 70s, to me this was a gift from God. What I thought would be a perfect day for a ride, which is appropriate thing how we will celebrate Christmas in a few weeks; yep, it's CHRISTMAS TIME. However, as I began my trek to the next town I noticed storm clouds ahead of me and I could see the rain coming down in sheets. Of course like a true child of God, I began to pray...to cry out to God for a rain free four hour journey.

Moments later a strong gust of wind almost blew me off of my bike and I briefly thought about heading home. And then I sensed God ask, “Still don't trust me, do you?” Then I remembered the story of Jesus calming the storm from a boat with the disciples. So with my faith renewed I pressed on to the next town. The winds seemed to blow harder and for a guy with broad shoulders like me, that's not good; it's like a sail on a boat, they catch all the wind and push me the other way. By the time I made it to the next town, the storm was gone. It was like God had slowed me down so He could move the storm from my path. After a quick water break I saddled up and headed towards the lake for some quiet time with God. As I topped a hill and looked past some fields I noticed the storm was now at the lake.

Again that fear and doubt bubbled up in my stomach and before I could mouth the words I was biking on wet asphalt and could see the rain puddles alongside the road. I had just missed the rain. It was like God was moving the storm from my path as He led and guided me. It kind of reminded me how God led the Israelites through the desert by a Pillar of cloud to guide them on their way and by night in a pillar of fire to give them light, so that they could travel by day or night (Exodus 13:21-24).

Remember the Hebrew word for straight is yashar and it is also translated as righteous, correct and upright. According to the psalmist this is how God leads His children in life, it’s not necessarily a straight line or easy path (Psalm 5:8, 23:3, 27:11), but it is right, even if we don't like it. Later the psalmist uses the same word to describe the Lord (Psalm 11:7, 92:15). Kyle Idleman explains, “Jesus didn't expect followers to be perfect, but He does call them to be authentic.”

Brady Boyd continues in his book Sons and Daughters, “If you've been wandering around absentmindedly in darkness, God has a word for you: it's time to turn to the light. You won't accidentally end up on God's perfect path for your life; you’ve got to be directed to the steps He'd have you take. If you ignore His guidance and wisdom and plan, you will stumble through your days, acquiring unnecessary welts at every turn. But if you meditate on his word as the psalmist did and ask for help, the way will be made clear.” Hopefully this blog will open eyes to a CLEAR SIGHT CHRISTMAS.

A few weeks after that first ride I had planned on going to spend Thanksgiving with my mentor and his family; but I sensed God say "draw me close to you." So I decided to listen to God (duh, Martin) and I stayed home, and then had lunch by myself. Afterwards, since there wasn't a cloud in the sky and again it was unseasonably warm I decided to go for another half-century bike ride. This time it was pretty much an event free ride.

In hindsight I can honestly say that I enjoyed the previous ride the most, although the birds weren’t even out singing. Because not only did I have to trust God more, I was able to see Him do some pretty amazing things on the ride. I'm sure you could say that God was moving the storm for other reasons; perhaps a farmer needed the rain on his crops or maybe there were some livestock or cattle in a pasture that needed water. Regardless, I had the chance to watch God do what I couldn't do, my Heavenly Father was watching out for me, it was a not so average ride after all.. This helped me to realize that there is a difference between what I believe is good or perfect and what God knows is (Psalm 57:10 -11, 103:11, Isaiah 55:9).

Webster's dictionary defines perfect as, “Being entirely without fault or defect, pure. This brings me to a huge problem that I have with most Christians and it is a lie I used to believe myself when I was teenager. It really chaps my hide when I hear, “I'm only HUMAN and I can't be perfect like Jesus. After all that's what grace is for right?” During a recent Radical discussion time at my church we discussed how this mindset of perfection and grace has led to apathy in the church today.

Honestly, sometimes I just want to slap the GRACE out of some Christians’ mouths. Its grace that makes us new creations, our slate is clean and we are spotless, unless we choose to go back to living our old ways. Listen to what Solomon had to say about people like this (Proverbs 26:11-12). Grace is like a safety net for when we make mistakes, it's not a trampoline for us to play around on as an excuse to live however we choose.

It is written throughout the Bible for Christians to be perfect (Leviticus 19:2, Deuteronomy 18:13, Matthew 5:48, 2 Corinthians 7:1, Philippians 3:12). Barnes' Notes on the Bible explains, “This word commonly means ‘finished, complete, pure, holy.’ Originally, it is applied to a piece of mechanism, as a machine that is complete in its parts. Applied to people, it refers to completeness of parts, or perfection, where no part is defective or ‘wanting’. Mature” Hence, I am complete in Christ. This is why I must be crucified, as long as one thing remains of me, I cannot be pure. Nothing but the blood can make us pure (Acts 20:28, 1 Peter 1:18-19, Hebrews 9:14, 10:10).

I've never understood how blood could make me white. But I do understand how it makes us pure. The psalmist cried out for the Lord to wash him clean with hyssop, depending on the translation you might read “purge me”. Hyssop when used in cooking has a minty aroma which explains why we often see goodies and sweets with mint pop up at restaurants this time of year. The herb is also used to flavor liqueur. Maybe that's why so many of us tend to drink this time year, we like the GOOD FEELIN’ don't we?

Medicinally, hyssop was used as an expectant. It soothes the throat and expells impurities from the lungs and throat. It was also used as an antiseptic for the mouth. The oil of hyssop can cause seizures in even low doses (2-3 drops) can cause convulsions in children. In biblical times seizures and convulsions often seen as a removal the evil spirits (Matthew 4:24, 17:14-16). Finally, it was used to brush the blood of the Passover lamb to the Israelite door frames. The use of hyssop in the founding of Passover was again made evident when the Lamb of God was sacrificed; a branch of hyssop was used to offer Him a drink of vinegar. Hyssop cleans from the inside out. It's not a change of appearance; it's a change of heart that results in a change of life.

Last month during New Life church’s guys’ night out author and speaker John Eldredge explained, “After women get married, they get messy. They've spent their whole lives trying to look good ..perfect hoping someone will pick them for marriage.” Then afterwards there is no need for the farce. They can let their hair down and take off their masks. Even I know married life is a change because it's a blood covenant. For the ladies reading this let me help you. If a man doesn't want you at your worst, then he doesn't deserve you at your best. There's freedom in not being perfect, is called grace…or love. Don't make a lie out of your life hoping for God's best, honesty is always the best route. It's like my father told me as a boy, “It's better to be hated for who you are, then loved for who we are not.“ Just be content in being a perfect you, even if it's not perfect. There's nobody like you. I’ve always said, I never trust a woman who doesn’t burp or fart..... ..“toot” around me. They’re hiding something. On one of the funnest dates I've ever gone on my date and I had a burping contest, hilarious!

For those of who know me, you know that I still have the hat I was wearing when I had my accident in college and you’ve seen the bloodstain from where the truck hit me in the head; as I mentioned in my last blog, that was the end of Martin Johnson, even though he is not in a PINE BOX. Blood represents life in the physical and New Covenant life in the spiritual.

Before Jesus died on the cross and shed His blood He declared “It is finished” (John 19:30). In a sense He was declaring that He had restored the relationship that was broken in the garden to how God had originally planned it in the beginning, perfect. The cross wasn't the beginning of God's LOVE PURSUIT of man, it was the end and He gave us the KEYS TO THE KINGDOM; He waits to see what YOU AND I will do with His gift. God did all the work for salvation on the cross, everything else is man's response to what God did; which leads me to the catalyst that sparked the idea for my book Crucified?.

About a year and a half ago I had a conversation with a local church deacon about the cost of following Jesus. His apathy and response, “Since Jesus died on the cross, I don't have to die to myself. Jesus died so I could live an abundant life and enjoy His good gifts,” left me heartbroken. I remember going home and turning my TV on and seeing a preview of Mel Gibson's The Passion Of The Christ. I began to wonder why we always focus on the last days of Jesus when His entire life here on earth was meant to be a sacrifice for us to follow (1 Corinthians 11:1, 1 Thessalonians 1:6).

So I began doing some research about Bethlhem, Jesus’ birthplace. Most of us know that Bethlehem means “house of bread.” What I learned actually turned my world upside down. Bethlehem's primary export was sacrificial lambs which were sold to temples throughout the region; it was a Shepherd’s town. MARY'S BOY CHILD, the MESSIAH began His journey on earth in a town known for sacrifice, which is the BIRTH OF LOVE. This was NO ORDINARY LOVE, it was a message in a baby, and it was a perfect love.

I have often wondered if Jesus cried when He was born a baby boy or if it was a silent night. One thing is for sure, it was O HOLY NIGHT. For John tells us that God's plan from the beginning was perfection, through Jesus’ SACRIFICE (Revelation 13:8). And that is what this blog will be about.

Perfect?

It's been awhile since my last blog, but I'm going to pick up where my last BLOG left off, this one is for all my BLOOD BRUTHAS that have been beating themselves up over their mistakes and failures. As summer draws to a close, I can look back and say it was perfect. Not that it didn't have its disappointments or scares, it did. What made it perfect is best explained by Abigail Breslin's character in The Ultimate Gift. My summer started out with a trip to Florida to see family, then to north Georgia for a few trips to see my mentor. Next I had the opportunity to go back to Colorado to see some old Friends of my family. While I was there I got to see God's creation at its best and it was indescribable. Even my new friend Meghann started to see things in a new light by going horseback riding with me. Meghann (don't blush) this is where you need to understand we can be perfect and there is hope, even when we stumble or make mistakes. As the Apostle Paul told the church in Rome, EVEN WHEN we were dead in our sins, Christ died for us (Romans 5:8). BY HIS WOUNDS we are HEALED and reconciled to God.

Evangelist Joni Eareckson Tada once said, "What makes us perfect, even with our disabilities, is when we follow JESUS." She goes on to quote the Apostle Paul in his letter to the church in Rome, that being transformed by God, we will know God's perfect will(Romans 12:1-4). In his book Velvet Elvis, Rob Bell points out that Jesus was angered by the Pharisees of His day and their fault finding of the people to the point of calling them, "Sons of hell." Brad Stine also noticed Jesus' anger towards the Pharisees in his book, Being a Christian Without Being an Idiot. However the apostle Paul told the church in Rome, "For those that are in Christ, there is NO CONDEMNATION(Romans 8:1-4." All of our sins, failures and wrongs are GONE. The Bible says God remembers them no more; they are as far as the East is from the West.

This is why I don't beat myself up when I am less than perfect and make a mistake. It is simple; confess your sin, repent, it is finished. No sense to linger here. HOW LONG will it take to see we are DIFFERENT NOW? I know I'M NOT WHO I WAS. It is nothing new that people have a hard time understanding this new life we have in Christ. The apostle John talks about an occasion when Jesus told Nicodemus (a Pharisee), I'm SORRY; you must be BORN AGAIN to enter the kingdom of Heaven; which this religious leader totally missed what Jesus meant. The apostle Paul told the church in Corinth, like I told my friends after my near death experience and spiritual RESURRECTION, the old me is DEAD AND GONE. Paul goes on to tell the church in Rome that when God looks at those in Christ, INSTEAD OF ME, He sees Jesus.

Next the writer of Hebrews says Jesus is perfect. So if we are in Jesus, we are perfect, now, not later. Paul later tells the church in Collosae that they are a CHOZEN, holy people, and YOU ARE LOVED (Colossians 3:12-22). The apostle Peter puts it this way; you are a royal priesthood, holy, set apart to declare the praises of Him who called you out of the dark (1 Peter 2:9). This is who we are in God's eyes, now. Peter goes on to tell us to be HOLY, because God, YOU ARE HOLY. One problem with the modern church is it has become a CAMOUFLAGE SOUL and try to fit into this world; while the apostle John tells us not to love this world or anything of it (1 John 2:15). James is a little sterner when he says that anyone who chooses to be friends with the world becomes the enemy of God (James 4:4), ouch.

Jesus goes on to tell us we are the salt of the earth and that when salt loses its flavor it is useless and should be thrown out and trampled upon. Bell tells us how the early church in the New Testament got it right when they identified themselves as "saints." The word Saints is a translation of the Greek word hagios which means "holy or set apart ones" and is where we get our word holy from. They knew who they who they were. The apostle Paul told the church in Ephesus to be holy, blameless, and spotless. With Jesus in your life there can never be a MORE BEAUTIFUL YOU. This was God's plan in the beginning with the one, until man messed it up and sin entered the world.

At this point we become imperfect and we have been trying to fix things ever since. I know because SO HARD I TRY. This leads me to the next aspect of being perfect. Although we are perfect through the SPIRITUAL BIZNESS, we are still going stumble from time to time and sin, our old nature will rear its ugly head. Both John and Paul point out all have sinned, but through Jesus we are reconciled to God. The apostle Paul goes on to tell the church in Rome, we know the law is spiritual, but I am unspiritual, sold as a slave to sin. What I want to do, I don't do and what I will not to do, I do. And if I do what I will not to do, it is not me, but the sin living in me(Romans 7:14-25). Bell describes this as a constant, conscious decision to keep dying to the old self, so we can live. Or as Jesus told the disciples in Matthew, "If any one desires to follow me, let him deny himself and take up his cross daily." This has become MY DESIRE and my YEARNING.

Now this doesn't mean we get a free ticket to live in sin like we may want, that would make us a HYPOCRITE. As Paul explained to the church in Rome, shall we go on sinning that Grace may increase? By no means, for we died to sin; how can we continue to live in it? Before my accident in 1997 my theology was jacked up. I had been taught and I believed that if I thought about sex or any sin, it was just as bad as doing it. So I felt justified goin' out and living apart from God, not the world for six years. I had come to the conclusion I was a sinner and I might as well enjoy my sin, if I was going to pay for it.

Bell talks of a man with the same problem I had in Velvet Elvis. Bell's conclusion was that the man's belief system was designed perfectly to get the results he was getting. I'm a sinner, I can't help it. There is no hope. Like me, the man didn't understand God's forgiveness or grace. Both the man and I thought we could work or earn our way into Heaven. But every time, I messed up I used it as an excuse to sin more. Can you relate to this? The apostle Paul told the church in Corinth that when we are weak, when we fail, we are strong. God's grace is ENOUGH ( 2 Corinthians 12:9). This is when we are strong, perfected by God's doing, not ours. So when you fail, He will TAKE YOU BACK. This is another shift of the Paradigm. All I had to do was say SAVIOR PLEASE forgive me and God's grace goes to work.

In his book Deliver Me, author and speaker Richard Exley tells the story of when he was tempted to lie over a trivial thing; it was then he realized that it doesn't matter who you are, a Christian writer, speaker or a pastor. We all have the innate capacity to sin. Even the religious elite have their VICES and at least one DIRTY LITTLE SECRET. And NOTHING BUT THE BLOOD of Jesus can save us, HE IS ALL we need. How else could God USE SOMEBODY like us with all of the sin in our lives? This is what is great about the story of David. Even though he commuted adultery and murder, the Bible describes him as a man after God's own heart. In his book Tempered Steel author Steve Farrar talks about how God used trials and David's failures to shape him into the leader God wanted him to be. Could it be that God uses our failures and weaknesses ALL FOR A PURPOSE of God's chisel to make us perfect? Don’t forget what Paul told the church in Rome (Romans 8:28). So In God's PERFECT TIME, if I HOLD ONTO JESUS, I will rise and in every sense be Perfect.

THE WAY 2.0?

I'm sure at this point many reading this would agree that JESUS IS THE WAY to God and to eternal perfection. But the divining rod here is the answer to this question. Are you willing to follow Him, completely; that's what disciples do, after all. And like good students we are called to obey our teacher. Idleman continues in Not a Fan,” Though I believe in the assurance of our salvation, I also believe that we are to work out I salvation with fear and trembling (Philippians 2:12). When it comes to where we will spend eternity we can't be afraid to ask the hard questions and take an honest look at answers that our lives offer. Is it possible that when asked, ‘Are you a follower of Jesus?’ You quickly responded, ‘Yes’, but one day you will be exposed as nothing more than a fan?” Jesus told us Himself this would be the case for many (Matthew 7:19-23). Remember He was talking to the church, not the world, although they claim to believe in God as well. We are His and called to follow Him.Idleman explains, “Many people take the wrong road and never find the narrow path. If that is true, then wouldn't it make sense for us to slow down?... It's a narrow road, but it's a road that leads to life.”

Sure we may say that we follow Jesus and in our hearts we may even think that we will. Remember Peter's denial? However our WORDS don't validate our faith, our lives do. Francis Chan recently tweeted, “True faith manifests itself through our actions.” It's like saying your wedding vows and being married, but instead living like you're still single. You cannot have it both ways. Although Scripture specifically says for wives to follow (I'm not stupid), every man knows there are times he must submit to his wife; there's a mutual sacrifice involved for the sake of the marriage relationship. My wife should be able to LEAN ON ME.
Personally, I’ve dated many women who claimed to be Christians, but when it came to following Him, they were anything but…when it came to dying to the flesh and flesh music they called me a RADICAL and a fanatic. They want an open relationship with God. Jesus wants all of you and he defines the relationship, not us.

Idleman continues, “When we learn to truly follow Jesus, we find that obedience to God comes from the inside out. Submission to what God wants for our lives flows naturally out of that relationship. It's not to say that what we do or don't do doesn’t matter, but what we do or don't do must come from who we are as followers of Jesus… Biblical belief is more than something we confess with our mouths; it's something we confess with our lives.” Listen how Jesus’ half-brother James explained it ( James 2:21-24).

Since Christmas time is here, let’s look at it this way. In the songs we sing, we call Jesus Lords of Lords. Idleman explains, “When we read in the New Testament that Jesus is called ‘Lord’ as a synonym for ‘God.’ But in the New Testament when followers referred to Jesus as Lord, it's not a reference to His divine status or His heavenly residence. The word they were using wasn't Yahweh. Instead the word that is translated as Lord in the New Testament is most often the word kurios. It shows up hundreds of times. And Kurios is a slavery word. Kurios is the word given to the master or owner of the slave.” And what did God do for us on that cross. Come on, say it with me, “He paid a price we could pay.” That makes Him our owner, right? After all we boast arrogantly that we “Belong to Him.” But we don't live like it.

Idleman explains, “The other word we need to understand is the word doulos. That's the word used to describe a follower. The definition of this word isn't difficult. It is a word that is most accurately translated as slave. Really ‘slave’ is the only way the word should be translated. For a number of different reasons the word is usually translated as ‘servant’ in Scripture. But the most literal translation is ‘slave.’ Most of New Testament writers introduced themselves as bond servants or slaves. Slaves have no rights but it's the job of their owners to take care of them and keep them healthy. Hmm, sounds good to me. Idleman explains, “You can't call Jesus Lord without declaring yourself His slave… Luke chapter 1 tells us that when Mary is told that she would be giving birth to the MESSIAH, her response is, ‘I am the Lord's servant.’ But the word is ‘bondslave.” I wonder if Mary ever wondered WHAT CHILD IS THIS?

You see it's clear who we worship and who owns us. There's evidence of this in our lives, in all that we do and I'm not just talking about wearing a cross as a symbol of our faith. It's like getting married, even without wedding bands, you can pretty much tell who is married to whom ( well at least you should) by how couples act and interact with each other. Those of you who know me know that ever since I first volunteered at a soup kitchen with my mentor and his wife years ago, it's been a dream of mine to marry a woman with a servant’s heart. I want so bad to serve God together with her and get dirty doing it( get your minds out the gutter pervs, this is a Christian blog,lol.).

Idleman points out, “Choosing to become a bondslave was an act of complete self-denial. A bondslave gave up all the rights to the master he is agreeing to give up all his possessions to the master… Who signs up for that? Well did you notice in Deuteronomy 15 what the motivation is for someone to choose slavery? Look at it again. ‘But your servant says to you, ‘I do not want to leave you,’ because he loves you and your family and is well-off with you, then take an awl and push it through his earlobe into the door, and he will become your servant for life. ” A slave realizes as crazy as it might seem to everyone else, as ridiculous as it might appear to those who don't understand, he's going to choose a life of slavery. He loves his master and realizes that he's better off as a slave. So out of love we become slaves of Jesus.”

Those earmarks identified the slaves and the master who owned them. Likewise in the classic by Phillip Keller, A Shepherd Looks At Psalm 23, “He can just set men free from their own sins, their own fears. Though so liberated loved Him with fierce loyalty. Is this one who insists that he was the good shepherd, the understanding shepherd the concerned shepherd who cares enough to seek out, save and restore lost men and women. He never hesitated to make it quite clear that when an individual came under His management and control there would be a certain new and unique relationship between Him and them. There would be something very special about belonging to this particular shepherd. There would be a distinct mark upon the man or woman that differentiated them from the rest of the crowd. The day I bought my first 30 ewes, my neighbor and I sat on the dusty corral rails that enclosed the sheep pens and admired the choice, strong well-breed ewes had become mine. Turning to me he handed me a large, sharp, killing knife and remarked tersely, ’Well, Philip, they're YOURS. Now you’ll have to put your mark on them.”

John tells us in the book of Revelation that those who follow the lamb of God will have His name written on their foreheads to identify them as His. As opposed to those who refuse to follow Him and have taken the mark of the beast (Revelation 13:17-14:1). Do you see why it's important to understand who you are following?

Keller continues, “I knew exactly what he meant. For each sheep-man has his own distinctive earmark which he cuts into one or other of the ears of his sheep. In this way, even at a distance, it's easy to determine to whom the sheep belongs… It was not the most pleasant procedure to catch each ewe in turn and lay her ear on wooden block then notched it deeply with the razor-sharp edge of the knife. There was pain for both of us but from our mutual suffering an incredible lifelong mark of ownership was made that could never be erased. And from then on every sheep that came into my possession would bear my mark.”

The apostle Mark tells us that just before the Good Shepherd was betrayed He fell to his knees in THE GARDEN (Mark 14:32-42) and had ONE GOOD CRY on His way to the cross, and it was for you and I. Christian writer Steve Mays writes, “God desires that we give Him preeminence in all of life. The Lord requires that we surrender our lives to His authority. Too often, we are fearful that whatever we give to God, He will take away. But if it is taken away, that is ultimately good, because God knows it is dangerous to our hearts.”

It's important to understand that a Shepherd doesn't merely take care of sheep; they own them and have plans for them. Their whole purpose for living was for to benefit the owner. Some are milked, others slaughtered for their meat. Listen to the psalmist (Psalm 44:11, 22). Later the New Testament writers would capture this imagery in their suffering (Acts 20:24, Romans 8:36, 1 Corinthians 4:9, 15:30-31, 2 Corinthians 1:9)

Shepherds cared for their sheep in many ways. Not only did they protect the flock from vicious attacks of wolves, bears and coyotes, they also protected them from small nuisances like flies and worms. It was the shepherd that moved the flock from pasture to pasture in the appropriate season. He would also survey the fields for dangerous vegetation that could make the sheep sick if they ate it. He would rise early in the morning and sometimes keep watch over the flock all through the night.

Do you see why the psalmist declared, “I shall not want (Psalm 23:1)? Keller explains, “What a proud, positive, bold statement to make. Obviously, this is the sentiment of the sheep utterly satisfied with its owner, perfectly content with its lot in life. Since the Lord is my shepherd, then I shall not want. Actually the word ‘want’ as used here has a broader meaning than might at first be imagined. No doubt the main concept is that of not lacking-- in proper care, management.. But a second emphasis is idea of being utterly contented in the good Shepherd’s care and consequently not craving or desiring anything more." God is enough.

Recently pastor Glenn Packiam of New Life Church in Colorado tweeted, “Contentment is not a ‘stuff’ issue; it’s a ‘trust’ issue.” At this point in my life I can honestly say I'm content with where God has me, ALL I REALLY WANT is to be in God's perfect will no matter how tough it may be, that is my ONE DESIRE. Don't we Christians “claim” in God we trust? Christian apologist Francis Schaeffer explains,” Desire becomes sin when it fails to include the love of God or men. I am to love God enough to be contented. … I am to love men enough not to envy.”

Brady Boyd continues, “Pam (his wife) and I learned something on the heels of that emotionally and physically draining season. We learn that there is no cheap way to follow Jesus, that intimacy with Him will likely continue to require every single thing we have… A yes to God means a no to ourselves. It means that at times humiliation and disillusionment and pain. But I can tell you from first-hand experience that also means: being swept up in the magnificence of heaven breaking through the brokenness of this life we lead. Whatever dreams have been put to death on this path I am on have been replaced with richer reality still. Whatever price my God should ask me to pay will be worth it in the end.”

Keller also explains, “In the Christian life there is a great danger in always looking for the easy place, the cozy corner, the comfortable position where there is no hardship, no need for endurance, no demand upon self-discipline. The time will we think ‘We have it made,’ so to speak, is actually when we are in mortal danger. There is such a thing as the discipline of poverty and privation which can be self-imposed to do us worlds of good. “If you try and tell this to some Christians today you leave them KICKING AND SCREAMING like a little child who didn't get what they wanted for Christmas. I've known pastors who simply refuse to let go of their stuff and still insist on going their way, because they're “called of God.”

I learned years ago in men's ministry that no man wakes up and decides to cheat on his wife or become addicted to porn, its a result of one little compromise at a time. It's like sheep or cows, they're so busy looking down at the grass and feeding their flesh with what they want they never realize how far away from the shepherd they are. But here's good news, because of His love for us He will TAKE ME BACK and CLEAN ME. Shepherds often have to go outside of their boundary fences (the Law) to free their sheep from the briars and weeds the dumb sheep have become “entangled” in or rescue them from a mud pit, again. Charles Spurgeon once said, “When we deal seriously with our sins, God will deal gently with us.”

That word entangles is a very Jewish way of saying, “They’ve returned to their folly.. sin.” The writers of the New Testament often used this imagery to describe Christians who are walking away from God (Galatians 5:1, Hebrews 12:12, and Peter 2:20). Instead of being slaves and servants of God, they'd rather be slaves of the flesh (Matthew 6:24, Romans 6:16, 20). Now you can say, “GRACE, GRACE, GRACE. Brady Boyd notes, “And so we wrestle. We admit disappointment. We engage in direct dialogue with our God. But in the end, whether resolution is reached or not, we come around to the same about: ‘I will not fall away. I trust you father. I really do. And while I don't understand what you're doing, I know you are guiding me along righteousness’ path…. Whatever has you knotted up these days, God's word can untangle it.”

Keller explains, “First of all should you points out that most of us area stiff-necked and stubborn lot. We prefer to follow our own fancies in turn to our own ways. (Isaiah 53:6). In this we do deliberately, repeatedly even to our own disadvantage. There is something almost terrifying about the destructive self-determination of a human being. It is inexorably interlock with personal pride and self-assertion. We insist me know what is best for us even though the disastrous results may be self-evident. Just as sheep will blindly, habitually, stupidly follow one another along the same little trails until they become ruts that a road into gigantic gullies, so we humans cling to the same habits that we have seen ruin other lives... We don't want to follow.”

It is a far cry from the way the church presents Christianity, isn't it? We get the good life with all of the “blessings “and good things. no worries or hassles. After all, “Every good and perfect gift comes from God (James 1:17).” Evangelist Billy Graham once said, “Why should we give God thanks? Because everything we have comes from God.” But who truly knows what is good? False teachers have taken a little bit of truth and twisted it into something totally un-biblical to make hurting and broken people feel good. The apostle Paul warned his protégé Timothy about Christians like this (1 Timothy 6:1-9). Unfortunately the church is full of pastors and teachers who are CASHIN’ OUT on their journey.

John Eldredge continued in his message At New Life, “There is a father to show us the way through the frontier years of life. Jesus chose to live life on earth to show us how to do it (Hebrews 2:17-18.)” Bill Purvis recently stated, “Not everyone in the church is going to heaven. That was the point behind Jesus’ parable about the wheat and tares (Matthew 13:24-30, 36-43). They grow up together, but when the winds come, the wheat stands tall and the tares bend over. One is the real thing the other isn't. This is a picture of the church in the Bible belt.”

In another parable of Jesus talks about separating goats from the sheep (Matthew 25:31-46), a problem most shepherds have is when their flocks grow so large, it's hard to keep up with them and to keep the goats out of the flock. Remember goats don't listen. Thus it was common for shepherds to put bells on the sheep to help keep track of them. This was the CAROL OF THE KINGS to let them know who they owned; Jesus won't lose His sheep like little Bo Peep
. That's why my JINGLE BELL ROCK, because I'm a LITTLE DRUMMER BOY and my beat bangs. However, most of you know that up until my accident in college I used to play the guitar. Unfortunately I didn't use that gift for the glory of God and I lost it.

In one of my favorite passages of the Bible Jesus declared to the religious leaders that His sheep know His voice and would not follow another. He goes on to say He willingly lays His life down for them because He loves them and a hired hand wouldn't do that (John 10:1-18). And here is the crux of the message of the cross, it was a personal sacrifice out of love for the flock, no one crucified the King of the Jews, as if man to kill God. This arrogance was evident on the sign the Romans placed above Jesus, “King of the Jews.”

KINGS?

We celebrate Christmas because it's the BIRTH OF A KING and that's all When LOVE CAME DOWN. This is another title we give Jesus, isn’t it? KING OF KINGS and as God's children we become kings and queens with Him. Brady Boyd explains, “Freedom is not about what we have been set free from. Freedom is about what we have been set free to become. And who we can become is a son, a daughter, of the King.” Remember, we belong to and follow a perfect God and his ways are yashar, if we fully trust Him. If we live crucified, surrendered lives. I SIGNED UP TO DIE.

Brady Boyd points out, “When we surrender our lives to Jesus Christ, we become children of the King, immediately eligible for eternity with God in heaven and for abundance here on earth… according to Psalm 139. Once you surrender your life to Christ you become a carrier of the very spirit of God. And God doesn't place His Spirit inside of mistakes. “One of my favorite hymns from my childhood is there's power in the blood. As a Child of the King we become part of His bloodline.

Before anyone gets on their soapbox and brags about their AUTHORITY and power, listen to what Jesus explained to His disciples about position (Matthew 20:25-27), There's that word again, “servant”. It's our job as servants to exalt His name because we adore Him, instead WE EXALT OUR NAME. The King’s love and power isn't based on who we are or what we do. It all goes back to who He is; just, faithful, merciful and a strong God. The same principle applies to shepherds and sheep Masters and slaves and even husbands and wives. A man's love for his wife comes from who he is and what he does, not what she is or does. After all “Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.”

My roommate from college’s wife is pregnant with their first child. She is in the “nesting” stage and has that baby wobble going on. Yet, he has never loved her more. Even though she isn't looking or feeling her best, he still thinks she's perfect. As her husband, it's still his job to protect and provide for her. This is the heartcry of every shepherd, husband and King. This is why I worship the king forever, for who He is; it’s crazy love. In the children's nursery rhyme Humpty Dumpty, he falls and no one can put him back together again. I never read if the King tried to help. Only He can pick up the pieces and put them together, He can save the day.

It is a king’s job to look out for His kingdom's welfare and protect His servants, He supplies EVERYTHING I NEED. I am not ON MY OWN during this journey, He fights for me. As I watch the news and see the happenings in Israel, I laugh because I know who gets THE VICTORY. Bill Purvis explained in a recent message, “God has promised to always take care of His people. Not just Israel, but Christians who have been adopted into the family through Jesus’ blood. God promised that the sun and moon would fall from the sky before His people would perish (Jeremiah 31:35-36).”

Over the Thanksgiving holiday I talked to my uncle who lives in Maryland about the amusement park in Virginia I used to go to when I lived there as a child. He told me that Kings Dominion had grown so much that it was impossible to see it all in one day. That's what the kingdom of God is supposed to do as well. Jesus’ birth should bring JOY TO THE WORLD, not just us. As we serve God and take the good news to every nation, His kingdom and glory spreads as well. Instead we are more concerned about serving the gods of this world. Which ones do you worship: fame, reputation, marriage, sex, money, your family or the Christmas baby? Belgian writer Julio Cortazar notes, “Human history is the sad result of each one looking out for himself.”

Idleman explains, “We are surrounded by messages that emphasize romantic love as the ultimate experience. Pursuing love is the subject of countless books.. It's the theme of most every song…. There's the classic from Meatloaf, ‘I'd do anything for love.’ He sings about just how far he will go to pursue that love. ‘I'd run right into hell and back… I would do anything for love.. But I won't do that…’ I never knew what ‘that’ was.. I won't do what?” What will you do to feel good or make yourself happy that you won't do for your Lord? If we don't give Him everything then our love isn't too legit, it's just mere words. Are you FALLIN’ IN LOVE with Him or the world? Hopefully, you just died in His arms tonight, are you willing to be crucified? Our Lord was born for that, I can’t make it without Him.

Remember Jesus said all you have to do is listen to what someone talks about the most to see the OVERFLOW of their heart (Matthew 12:34). This Christmas what are you not just talking about, who are you serving? Regardless of what's important to you now, Scripture is clear that one day everyone will bow before the throne of God, because He is perfect(Philippians 2:10).















Child?(Remixed And Reposted)

After I finished my last blog, I began working on my third assignment for my current writing class. What I learned opened my eyes and reminded me what it meant to be born again. The assignment was about how writers can draw from their memories for information and inspiration; hence, it being called a "memory" source, Da. In order to stir up memories, one must fine-tune and narrow it down by asking questions. The first question that came to mind for me was, "When did I first realize that there needed to be a change in my life if I was going to follow Jesus?.. When did I realize I need to be crucified?"

For almost 2 years I have believed that this came from the heart ache and pain that I felt from the betrayal of friends and MISSING a young woman that I love. However, I realized that I should've realized this when I first gave my life to Christ. But it wasn't until I died in 1997; yes I now understand Martin Johnson died in 1997. For years I've called this a near-death experience. It was so much more than that, it was a death and rebirthing . I even told most of my friends that the old Martin was DEAD AND GONE. Didn't I, Red? Yet, now more than ever I realize that is when everything really changed for me; no more drinking, drugs, premarital sex nor staying out dancing all night long. Now I get to dance at the skating rink, the gym, on the front porch or just in my bedroom. I'm just thankful to be able to walk and move... to breathe… to really live.

I don't have to go to a club to, " get my dance on." In HINDSIGHT, I vividly remember thinking, "The Christian lifestyle is going to be boring and the music sucks." But at the same time I knew that I needed to make a change in my life. C.S. Lewis once said, "It is when I turn to Christ, when I give myself up to His Personality, that I first begin to have a personality of my own." The apostle Paul told the church that to live is Christ and that means I am crucified with Him (Philippians 1:21-22, Galatians 2:20-21). You see I didn't understand it then, but now I get it. I don't have to wait until I get to the Heaven, the Paradise city to be a babe in Christ; I was REBORN the moment I accepted Jesus and received the Holy Spirit. I became a transformer, I'm changed. And here's why I didn't get it, I was just a baby.

And I still am in more ways than one. Most of you who know me would agree that I am just a big kid: riding bikes, skating, and jumping rope. Don't forget I'd rather dance or die. And if you've ever seen me in the snow, you've seen the child in me really come out: making snow angels, snowmen, snowball fights. Brother Garvin, you, Jon and Nico better watch out when I come back to the big CO (Colorado). I just want to make the most out of this second chance at life that God has given me. Remember that’s what grace is, a second chance to get things right. I don't want to take for granted anything, especially the simple things in life, Spiritual or physical.

In 1997 God reminded me what it meant to be a child of God; it's so much more than just a BRAND NEW DAY (Lamentations 3:22-23), it's a BRAND NEW life. For Baptists, when you've BEEN THROUGH THE WATER it's symbolic of this new life. Remember when God flooded the earth because of the wickedness of man and God told Noah who walked with God to multiply? The Hebrew word used here for multiply is Rabah, which is most commonly translated as "be or become great". God wanted to start all over with man and do something new (Genesis 6:5-7:25).

In a recent message by James Merritt he explained, "Christianity isn't a new start in life. It's a new life to start with." That means we really do have a clean slate, it's not just that God removes or forgets our sin, He removes our old lives and gives us new ones in Him, we're SET FREE from our old lives. C. S. Lewis once noted, "God became man to turn creatures into sons: not simply to produce better men of the old kind." As a child of God the sky is the limit if you know who YOU ARE.

In his book Sons And Daughters Brady Boyd writes, "I have spent the past decade dissecting what God says about whom we are--- and about what we are, once we surrender our lives to Him. We are new and alive and blessed and free, righteous and holy and redeemed. We are joyful, prayerful, thankful and eternally positioned with Christ. We are called overcomers, Victors, ministers and saints, heirs and believers and friends. But the most compelling role I have been able to find is that of God's daughters and sons. If you were to unravel the fabric of my heart, the thematic thread you would be holding your hands would be this: getting clear on our identity-- and that alone--- is what determines how well we will live."

, Merritt continued, "If we're really born again, there will be evidence of it: fruit, fellowship and a following of Jesus. Once you become a child of God, it will be obvious. You don't have to be religious to go to heaven; you can get all the head knowledge and still go to hell." Spiritual maturity isn't memorizing and learning Scripture, its living Scripture. Jesus Himself explained this to one of the chief Pharisees (religious leader). Listen to how He explained it to Nicodemus (John 3:1-21). Nicodemus is a picture of a lot of Christians today. We talk the talk, go to church, and try to memorize as much Scripture as possible to SHOW OFF to our friends so we can look Christian and mature. But, what we prove is our immaturity, learning and memorizing Scripture is the easy part of Christianity, it's walking and living it out that's hard. Like little children we are called to trust and obey.

Jesus said Himself, "If you love Me, you will obey Me (John 14:15, 21, 23, 15:10, 1 John 2:3, 5:3, 2 John 1:6). That has been God's command since He gave His first commission to His first children in THE GARDEN to be fruitful and multiply (Genesis 1:26-28). That's what God told the first Adam who walked with God. He dropped the ball, didn't he? I don't believe God was talking about having sex and having children for more than one reason. God told the creations that were created in His image (a community) to go and make more people who will walk with Him. Bearing fruits is a very Jewish way of saying grow or increase spiritually, later the prophet Isaiah used this term in his Messianic prediction about Jesse's roots ( Isaiah 11:1). Jesus would be the first of many sons.

The same word for multiply to Noah is used here. Later in Genesis God gave a promise about greatness (Genesis 12:1-3) to Abram who would offer to sacrifice his only son. We all know Eve gave birth to two sons, one who sacrificed his best (sheep) and the other who really didn't sacrifice. Able understood the cost of walking with God.

I don't know about any of you reading this, but I don't need anyone to tell me to go and have sex. If anything I need someone to tell me not to. Scripture even supports this (1 Samuel 21:5, 1 Samuel 21:5, Romans 1:24, 1 Corinthians 7:2, 1 Thessalonians 4:3-4). After all, TRUE LOVE WAITS. For those of you who know me, know that all it takes is a BROWN EYED GIRL with brown hair and I become like a car with an old timing belt, I'll run. But I'm not hitting on all cylinders; it's just a matter of time before I lock down. Most Christians would quote Paul and say," It is better to marry, than to burn. (1 Corinthians 7:9). But they neglect the fact that he states "if" you cannot control yourself.

However, as a "child of God", He makes the IMPOSSIBLE, POSSIBLE. Here comes a sacrifice.. I must die to myself and that means the desires of my flesh, all of them. It's really the basics of life in Christ, its Christianity 101. Truth be told we just don't want to control ourselves.. to obey and we rush into marriage for the wrong reason; marriage is a license to love, not lust. Remember a real lady knows THE DIFFERENCE; love is about giving and lust is about taking. I honestly believe that was the biggest lesson that I learned in college when I walked away from God for six years. Although I thought, I'm grown and I'm ready for the world. My heavenly Father knew those mistakes would CHISEL ME and make me MAN UP. Which is what this blog will be about, being a child of God and how He loves us.

CHILD?

During the INTRO to this blog, I want to remind you that in my last blog I explained that God sees believers as His Children. I'm going to continue with that perspective in this blog. I may not have any children of my own, yet. But one day I hope to have many children. Because the Psalmist says that blessed be the man whose quiver is full of children (Psalm 127:4-5). I have heard countless friends describe their children as being perfect when they are first born. But give it four years and it is another story.

It’s no wonder that the writer of Genesis tells us Abraham pleaded with God for children. Do you remember the song? And because of this we are CHILDREN OF THE LIVING GOD, perfect in His sight. The apostle Peter called Jesus the perfect Lamb of God, without blemish (1 Peter 1:19). My friend and brother in men's ministry, Hal Taylor often quotes the apostle Paul's letter to the church in Galatia (Galatians 4:4-6). A few years back, I heard Christian author and speaker Justin Lookado share his testimony about how he was adopted as a little boy. Lookado states that in being adopted, his parents didn't get stuck with him, they chose him.

John tells us that Jesus told his disciples that, He chose us (John 15:16). Remember, Jesus also told Nicodemus that he had to be born again to enter the kingdom of heaven. Jesus said,"Whosoever doesn't receive the kingdom of Heaven LIKE A CHILD, will not enter it (Mark 10:15, Luke 18:17)." Listen to how Jesus taught His disciples to pray," Our Father which art in heaven, HALLOWED be thy name (Matthew 6:9, Luke 11:2) ." The apostle Paul told the church in Rome that those led by the spirit are the children of God and by that spirit we cry out ABBA, FATHER (Romans 8:12-17).

In his book, Jesus Wants to Save Christians (a Manifesto for the Church in Exile) Rob Bell says that our God is a god that hears the cry of the oppressed; He isn't just some god out there in the cosmos. Bell cites the writer of Exodus when God tells Moses," I have heard the cry of my children and I have seen how the Egyptians are oppressing them and I am going to come to their rescue (Exodus 3:7-8). Later the writer of Exodus tells us about the Ten Commandments. Remember those? Just in case you don't, there is one where God says honor thy father and mother. And who is thy father? Wow, is this the HERO of the day. This god hears and sees, then saves us, TIME AFTER TIME. The Hebrew word used for cry is Sa'aq. It is an expression of pain, the ouch, the sound a child utters when it is HURT.

Bell says Sa' aq is also a question that arises out of the pain, where is justice? It is a way of saying WHERE WERE YOU? Where were you when I hit rock bottom, where were you when the towers came crashing down. It is the sound I make when I get to the end of my rope. It is the sound we make when we are DESPERATE for help. So in my time of need God is the HERO, I know I can call on you. And God will be my father as He comes to my RESCUE and I will CRY NO MORE. How many times have we cried out to God, why? If you have children, that in itself is a sign that we are children, they ask, why this or why that. And you say Father knows best and He says YOU KNOW BETTER THAN THAT.

I hated hearing that when I was a kid. God knows BETTER THAN I. God knows that there will be days when we say yes, I BELIEVE IN YOU and days when we ask ARE YOU REAL? There are times when I feel like SOMEBODY'S WATCHING ME and times when I ask WHO'S WATCHING ME? And like a child, there are days when we say dad....God, I'm watching you. That is why Paul told the church in Ephesus, not to be tossed to and fro by every wind of teaching, instead Grow up ( Ephesians 4:15-16) into Him who is the head, that is Christ.

And also to the church in Corinth he said stop thinking like children (1 Corinthians 14:20). This explains why sometimes we try to RUNAWAY and HIDE from God like a true CHILD OF EDEN; remember what Adam and Eve did in the book of Genesis? I can act pretty childish sometimes. Which is why IT AMAZES ME how with all my sin and shame, I don't LOSE MY SOUL. I'm left SPEECHLESS as God still says YOU ARE A CHILD OF MINE and I love you this much. That feeling I get when daddy says I'm beautiful , lets me know I am His CHILD.

NAMES? 2.0

The one thing that I'm looking forward to more than hearing my pastor say MR. AND MRS. Martin Thomas Johnson is the birth of my first child, especially if it is a son. They are the ones who will carry on the family name. Remember having children is so much more than just a physical thing. It transcends the physical by them being a REFLECTION of their parents, their nature and character. Some parents have even looked at children as a way to begin again. Some religions believe that you can earn your way to heaven by having children. Over the years in working with men in men's ministry I've heard countless men use their children and families as an excuse not to be more active and involved in the church.

Brady Boyd continues, “I’d be willing to bet that easily more than half of our population has never had an earthly father place his hands on their shoulders and with the warmth and sincerity pray a prayer of blessing over their lives. They never once heard the words, ‘You are my son…. My daughter…. And I delight in you.’They have never known the feeling of truly being seen, of being loved. Of being cheered on in the same way that God affirmed His own Son. Just before Jesus began His public ministry here on planet Earth, He chose to be baptized by John, as a way of letting onlookers know that He was devoted to following His heavenly Father’s will rather than going the world’s way with His life.” Here God taught us how to love our children.

C. S. Lewis once wrote, “Once a man is united to God, how could he not live forever?” Maybe that's why God calls us His children. If you have one, you should be thankful; which is appropriate seeing how we will celebrate Thanksgiving in a few weeks. I spent last Thanksgiving with my mentor and his family. Again, they have accepted me as one of their own.. in a sense adopted me. I can really relate to the Apostle Paul's declaration to the church in Galatia (Galatians 4:4-5). My mentor treats me as one of his own. I know I can trust and depend on him. He walks with me through the ups and downs of life.

Which reminds me of when I lived in Italy and got my first bike, an orange Road Runner bike and my father would run along right beside me as he tried to teach me how to stop. That's what fathers do, they’re right next to you when you're young and learning; in a sense its discipleship 101.

Perhaps this goes back to that first commission in the garden; which brings me to the second Adam and the Great Commission He gave to His disciples. Jesus Christ restores the relationship we lost in the garden. So Christians are to live in a way that God will be exalted, not us. WHAT YOU HERE FOR? But, we treat Jesus’ command as if it's a game of LASER TAG when we think we can quote Scripture and shine a “light” on someone for a moment and they become disciples. Discipleship is walking with someone and showing them the ways of God.

In a recent message by Bill Purvis he explained, “When King Herod had heard that the messianic prophecy had been filled he issued an order ‘to kill all the boys in Bethlehem and its vicinity who were two years old and under, in accordance with the time he had learned from the Magi. Then what was said through the prophet Jeremiah was fulfilled (Matthew 2:16-18).” God’s Son Jesus was a blessing to the world.

God makes it clear that children are blessings, not a curse. However in 2008, approximately 1.21 million abortions took place in the U.S., down from an estimated 1.29 million in 2002, 1.31 million in 2000 and 1.36 million in 1996. From 1973 through 2008, nearly 50 million legal abortions have occurred in the U.S. (AGI). 37% of women obtaining abortions identify themselves as Protestant, and 28% identify themselves as Catholic (AGI). At current rates, nearly one-third of American women will have an abortion (AGI). A few years ago a coworker of mine shared with me that her new husband had an affair which resulted in a child. She told me this because that's how she learned she was unable to bear children. It broke my heart to hear her agony and the pain of some sick twist of fate. I’m happy to say, she toughed it out, honored God and is still married. She recently shared with me, “He turned out to be a pretty good husband.”

PAIN? 2.0

Pain, we've all experienced it both as adults and as children. Remember when you are a kid and all you had to worry about was how late you could stay out without getting in trouble. Life was simple; we really didn't have any responsibilities. But we wanted to grow up to have more freedom to do what we wanted. It's a lot like our church life, isn't it? We want to go to heaven and to follow Jesus. But we didn't realize how much responsibility there was. Jesus Himself explained this responsibility (Luke 12:48). A few chapters later Jesus teaches the multitudes about the cost ( Luke 14:25-35) of really following Him and not simply admiring Him like you do some SUPERSTAR or athlete; being a disciple.. a follower of Jesus requires all of me, not part of me. It sort of makes you want to go back to your old life.

In his book Not A Fan, Kyle Idleman writes, “Jesus defines the relationship by making it clear that if we follow Him, we follow Him and Him alone. He won't share us--- not with money, not with a career, not even with your family. Maybe you’ve read a passage like this and it seems that God is being a little possessive and jealous. But understand this-- when Jesus explains that He will not share your affection or devotion, He isn't just saying how He wants to be loved by you; He is making it clear how He loves you. Trying to follow Jesus part time or halfhearted is impossible. The relationship He wants with you requires your whole heart. And fans should note that His terms are not negotiable. So before you say, ‘I want to be a follower,’ be sure you understand what it's going to cost you.”

And all this time the church thought she was the it girl, because she talked the talk and looked good, when she's just a she wolf. She's hot-N-cold, when walking with God is easy she's on fire; but when it's time to grow up, not so much.What scares me the most is, she doesn't even blush about it. While I was in Colorado three years ago, I remember one morning after church at New Life seeing a couple of kids scooping the snow off the back of the cars and having snowball fights. Those were the good times for me as a child. But the older we get the more responsibility we get and everything sucks.

There are bills, deadlines and it takes longer to remember everything. It kind of makes you wish that you could start over, doesn't it? Some of you may be thinking don't judge me. Mature Christians recognize the need for correction and welcome it. Let's not forget the difference between judgment and correction. Judgment is final and God gets the final say so on it. While correction isn't and it's our choice what you do it, correction is for our good and can prepare us for God's final judgment. However, like a child we REBEL and God has to teach us over and over. Doesn't He? So if we refuse correction, we don't want to grow up. Welcome to free will.

Idleman continues, “When you experience the pains of life where do you turn? Maybe it's to a parent or a spouse. Maybe it's to the refrigerator. Do you bury yourself in work? All of these things have the potential to compete with Jesus for our devotion and affection. There is certainly nothing wrong with finding comfort from family and friends; that's part of God's design. But the question is, “If they take the place of Jesus? I have found that when someone goes through a difficult time or a painful circumstance, who or what they are truly following is often revealed. When our first response to suffering is to turn to anyone or anything other than Jesus it may reveal that are affection is divided and we are following someone or something other than Jesus.

Bill Purvis explains, “Scripture contains the law of reoccurrence.” The law of reoccurrence simply states, a thing occurs and then, if it is repeated, it recurs. It is by repetition that we learn things. The Lord understands human psychology and knows that a thing must be repeated time and time again in order to make the proper impression upon the human mind. It is therefore in accordance with this principle that the Lord has adopted the principle of the law of recurrence.

Purvis continues, “The word glory is used 400 times in Scripture and is almost always preceded by the word suffer (Romans 8: 18, 1 Peter 1: 11, 1 Peter 4:13, 1 Peter 5:1). On the other side of suffering is a glory. God never blessed person greatly that didn't suffer.” First we must keep our suffering in the proper perspective; it's not punishment for sin. Scripture is clear that the testing of our faith through trials is what helps us to grow (Romans 5:3-5, Hebrews 6:12, 1 Peter 1:7). The author of Hebrews says that if God doesn't discipline (correct) us; we aren't His children (Hebrews 12:6-8).

With that mindset we can look at the struggles in our lives with more hope. Listen to what the writer of Hebrews had to say about Moses (Hebrews 11:24-29). This is why trials in life are a beautiful place. Billy Graham once said, “Trials and difficulties may assail the life of the believer, but they also have the ability to remold his character and banish from his life those impurities which might impair growth and service. “As I look back over my “new“life I can see God's discipline and the building of my faith.

Five months after my accident in 1997, my grandmother passed away. Two months later I was in another car accident. The next year my mother filed for divorce from my father. Five years later my mother was diagnosed with lung cancer. A year later my father was diagnosed with lung cancer, he died three months later; followed by my mother just four months afterwards. Over this same time I met my mentor in 1998 and his father passed away. After my parents died, our relationship grew stronger and when I was fired from my job in 2008, it was my mentor who was there for me and told me to sign up for disability. Our relationship has grown from him being a brother in Christ to a Sunday school teacher to a mentor and finally father figure. For that Paul, I say thank you.

We don't always see eye to eye. My mentor is the first tell me he doesn't like my hardware (nose ring and ear rings). Still, I can think of no other man on earth that I would look to as a father figure other than him. Here is another way we are brothers, siblings don't always see eye to eye and sometimes have pretty physical arguments. I remember hen I was younger and my family lived in Virginia. My older sister and I had an argument while out roller-skating, one PUSH off the curb and she broke her arm. I'm not sure if Virginia just has a lot of high curbs, but I broke both of her arms and legs on separate occasions. I was a mischievous little boy and I guess I still am. The apostle Paul addresses arguing in the church in his letter to Titus (Titus 3: 3-11). Welcome to the family.

Last year I remember going to my mentor’s mother-in-law's house for Thanksgiving with her. While the women were inside doing whatever women do, my mentor and I along with his son-in-law and nephew walked through an old pecan orchard and picked up pecans. It's kind of a bonding thing between us. Here in the South, pecans begin falling around early October when the winds pick up and the temperature drops. That day God showed me a lot. Pecan trees like Christians will bear fruit. However, it's not until the harsh winds of life blow that the fruits are scattered.

God had to teach the early church this lesson when they disobeyed Him and stayed in Jerusalem after Jesus told them to go and SPREAD THE GOSPEL. It was the persecution of the church that finally got them to move out of their comfort zones. Simple obedience is the key to the success of the Great Commission. Then again most Christians don't like change, do we? Maybe that's why we don't like going through the GROWING PAINS. However, as Idleman explains, “When we learn to truly follow Jesus, “obedience to God comes from the inside out. Submission to what God wants for our lives flows naturally out of that relationship.”

If it was love that held Jesus to the cross while He was in pain. It's our love for and devotion to Him that will help us to follow Him through our pain. Idleman points out, “If you read through the four Gospels that tell of Christ's life, you find that Jesus says ‘Believe in me’ about five times. Then care to guess how many times Jesus said ‘Follow me’? About 20 times. Now I'm not saying that following is more important than believing. What I am saying is that the two are firmly connected. They are the heart and lungs of faith. One can live without the other. If you try and separate the message of follow from the message of believe, belief dies in the process… Following is part of believing. To actually believe is to follow.” Remember what Peter wrote (1 Peter 2:21)? When Christ, said, “Come to Me all who are weary (Matthew 11:28. It wasn't a call to an easy life or to laziness and surely not to apathy. The early church understood this (Acts 5:17 -42, 14:22). It was a call to die.. to change and to live again. Somehow deep down inside like when we disobeyed our parents and did wrong, we know we are wrong. Thomas Carlyle observed, “Conviction … is worthless till it converts itself into conduct.”

Another thing that starts around the same time is the autumn leaf color change. Like the pecans, it's the harsh temperature changes and lack of light that cause leaves to produce less chlorophyll which results in the color change. As the daylight hours decrease and the temperature as well, the leaves become weaker and fall with the blowing winds. If not new leaves won't be able to grow in the spring as the daylight hours increase. Do you see the sacrifice in nature? Charles Spurgeon once stated, “Trials are winds which root the tree of our faith.”

It's difficult times and suffering that causes us to grow. This is the spiritual meat that we should crave as we grow older. Grace is the spiritual milk that we receive his newborns, (1 Corinthians 3:2, 14:20, 1 Peter 2:2) any child can understand do bad and get good. Who wouldn't want that? It sounds sweet to me. And there's the problem, we've gotten so used to the sweet part of the gospel, but we can't stay there. It's almost like going into a sugar induced coma to
numb the pain, we like the Jesus high and we don’t want to come down off that mountain top. And we try to avoid the very thing God wants to use to help us to grow; before I work out I “carb” up to increase my insulin levels to fuel me for my work out. But afterwards I began taking in meat and protein because that's what helps me to grow.

The music and praise time should be the icing on the cake, not the cake itself. Besides emotionalism isn't spirituality, it is simply a stirring of feelings as opposed to a stirring of the Spirit. Which do you think helps us grow more? Listen to Paul( Galatians 6:8-9).

In a couple of weeks many of you will sit down at the dinner table for Thanksgiving dinner and the main course will be Turkey, not the sweets; unless of course you're still a little child with a sweet tooth. The trials and suffering are what’s hard to swallow, but that’s what makes us grow and grow stronger. Not the easy or sweet crap. Jesus is the focus of our salvation, not the blessings. When I was growing up, in the church there was a saying, “Let the main thing the main thing. Nothing else really matters.” Jesus told His disciples unless they eat Him, they have no life in Him (John 6:53-55). Please don't think I'm calling Jesus a turkey, we all know He is the sacrificial lamb. Besides if you know me, you know I don't like turkey. MY JOY comes from Jesus, not His blessings.

Idleman continues, “Jesus makes no apologies for His strong words He wants people to be clear about what they are signing on for. Many fans responded to the gospel message that was designed to sound as easy and as appealing as possible. It's like the new homeowner who signed on the dotted line to buy the house with no money down interest-only payments for a year, they find themselves a little shocked to discover the terms Jesus actually laid out. But this wasn't the fine print of His message. It was the main point.” They didn’t know there would be pain.

In Jewish culture the common term for this is sifting. Which is very Jewish way of saying, “I'm going to tear you apart and see what you're made of.. to see if you’re real or authentic.” This can be very painful both spiritually and physically. Rick Lawrence writes in his book Sifted, “"It is the kindest thing God can do for His children, sometimes, to let them fall in the mire. You would not hold by your Father's hand; you struggled to pull it away; He let it go, and there you lay. Now that you stretch forth the hand to him again, He will take you, and clean, not your garments only, but your heart, and soul, and consciousness. The principle of sifting is a beating that's followed by a separating that reveals something valuable. Beat. Separate, reveal.” Jesus told Peter that Satan wanted to sift him (Luke 22:31). Bill Purvis explains, “You don't know what's in somebody until they've been tested. A love that can't be tested is a love that can't be trusted. “ Look at what a Caterpillar goes through before becoming a butterfly.

God is always talking to His children, like a true father. Problem is true to the nature of a child, we don't always LISTEN. Do we? Go back and read the book of Psalms, David was constantly meditating on God's word and listening to Him after he cried out. David called every word beautiful and excellent. According to Jesus you CAN'T ERASE IT (Matthew 5:17-18). Not even the difficult parts, the parts he didn't want to hear or understand…what we call the Law. David knew the law proved how much he needed His Father and a father’s love, grace. His GRACE ABOUNDS.

Last month I went for a bike ride and found myself at my favorite place to listen to God. I remembered that just two years ago I had hoped to share that place with the young woman I love. I found myself asking God why He had changed my heart. I realized there's a difference between God working in our hearts and in our lives. We've become dream slaves and expect God to jump at our beck and call because we’re His children. But children are supposed to listen to and honor their parents, not the other way around. He has the right to lead and guide me on my journey through life.

King David pointed out that God gives us the desires of our heart, “if” we delight in and seek God first (Psalm 37:4). John points out our desires must be in accordance to God's will, not ours (1 John 5:14-15). It seems we want our dreams more than we want the dream giver, which is idolatry. John Piper notes, “Christ is glorified in me when people see He is more precious to me than all that life can give or death can take.” I honestly believe that I dodged a bullet by God not giving me what I wanted earlier this year. I knew she was trouble from the start; I should have listened to my mentor and friends all along.

Perhaps this is why both the prophet Jeremiah and Jesus warned us not to LISTEN to our hearts (Jeremiah 17:9, Matthew 13:15). The old saying is, “God gave us two ears and one mouth, and so we should listen as twice as much as we talk.” If we SLOW DOWN and pay attention, God will open our eyes. For my 4th assignment I had to interview someone for my book to hear their perspective and use their expertise. I opted to interview a local man who raises sheep to sell the meat commercially. The purpose was to listen and learn. And what I learned about sheep really helped me grow as a Christian. Sheep will follow whatever or whomever provides their needs no matter who gives it to them. However, Jesus declared that His sheep know His voice and listen to Him and they will never follow another (John 10:27).

Idleman explains, “Probably the best biblical word for intimacy is the word ‘know.’ But this knowing goes much deeper than knowledge. The Bible first uses this word to describe a relationship in Genesis 4:1, Adam knew Eve his wife (KJV). The Hebrew word for ‘knew’ here is the word ‘yada.’ Here's the best way to define the word ’yada’: to know completely and to be completely known. But the NIV translates the word a little differently, because it puts it in context what's happening. So your Bible probably says in Genesis 4:1 Adam lay with his wife Eve…. You get the picture?” It's not head knowledge and even more than heart knowledge, it's a complete knowledge that's intimate, which comes from listening and learning. Much like with your wife or child.

Are you always praying, which is talking and not listening? I wonder, if God isn't looking down and thinking just shut up? I know that's not politically correct, get over it. I'm sure He is thinking JUST HUSH up, sweet child of mine. Yet, we are taught to keep asking, keep praying and God will answer us. God always answers us, just not the way we want it. Is this really how the church looks at parenting? No wonder our kids and country are OUTTA CONTROL!

We've spoiled them. Just THROW YA HANDS UP and keep asking, whining and begging and God will give me everything I want, right? Jesus spoke directly against repetitious prayer (Matthew 6:6-7). Our heavenly Father knows and provides our needs, not wants, A wise parent knows this and practices this; they know how to say “no,” just like God. Sometimes it may even mean seeing their child hurt or be disappointed at the time. Let me be clear Scripture is clear to go to God for your needs (Ephesians 6:18, Philippians 4:6, 1 Timothy 2:2, 5:5,) that’s HIS KIND OF LOVE. But we are to give it to Him and leave it with Him, not keep worrying about it, where’s the faith and trust? Eugene Peterson states, “Prayer is political action …. Prayer is public good. Far more of our nation's life is shaped by prayer than is formed by legislation.” We must accept His answer, no matter what. Dietrich Bonhoeffer once noted, “Being a Christian is less about cautiously avoiding sin than about courageously & actively doing God's will.”

Remember, as a parent who loves their children, sometimes you have to wait and let them learn on their own. This is how they grow. Perhaps we've forgotten Jesus’ parable about the prodigal son (Luke 15:11-32). And that's what happened to me when I walked away from God and my faith for six years. When I hit rock bottom and came RUNNING back, love outran me. Brody Boyd explains, “The son belonged here, in his father's house. Truly he had nothing to prove.” Maybe this is why the prophet Moses said a man (or woman) must leave their parents before they marry (Genesis 2:24) and Paul called this a mystery. Paul goes on to say he is talking about the Bridegroom and the bride. Every man knows to make sure that a woman has let go of mom’s apron strings and dad’s wallet before you think about marriage, it's a guy 101.

This is a time when we learn to trust God. Parents can't always be a storm shelter for the children, that's God's job to come to the rescue. This is why I’m thankful, GOD IS MY DADDY. Pardon my vernacular, but there's something incredibly hot about a young woman who has learned to rely on and trust her heavenly Father, more than her earthly parents. I even see this as reflection of her parent’s faith by them letting her grow up; they know they are not in control.

Idleman explains, “Some fans are like the sudducees. Their faith was something they were born into. It was never really something they chose. Maybe when you were born your parents gave you a mask, and you grew up acting like Christians act, talking how Christians talked, listening to the music Christians listen to; but you never fell in love with Jesus. Your faith has always been more about honoring your heritage than surrendering your heart.” I know life can be scary; I've had my share of scary moments. I'm not too proud to admit there are days I stay on my knees crying out to God, there is no need to PUT ON a mask, when you put on Jesus.

I'm sure some of you reading this feel that if I were a “true” child of God I would be FEARLESS. Let's get this straight, children get frightened and doubt. The apostle Paul makes it clear that any confidence I have, it is in my heavenly Father because He won the victory through the sacrifice of His Son (2 Corinthians 1:14, 3:1, 10:7, 12:1-9). One of my neighbors has a six-month-old baby; my neighbor approached me to apologize for her crying at night and early morning. What he didn't realize was that each time I hear his daughter cry, I smile. Because it reminds me of how I cry out to God when I'm scared that the skyfalls and how to God it's a joyful noise and He will never leave me, it's Alright. Because of His perfect SACRIFICE we are joint heirs, brothers, sisters, daughters; all God sees is a child.





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One?( Remixed And Reposted)

After I posted my last blog, I had the opportunity to go to Atlanta and volunteer at Celebrate Freedom. I have attended this annual event for the last four years and I enjoy getting to meet new people and sing songs of praise to God while fellowshipping with other believers. I know God will show up and talk to me there. This year was no different, I was unsure about which blog I was going to rewrite and repost next; so I prayed God, " you lead me." And true to form God showed up!

Not only were the musicians (ranging from Jamie Grace to one of my faves Jars Of Clay) amazing live. I had an opportunity to serve my brothers and sisters. God even allowed me to “bless" one with a simple frozen treat from the Varsity. Less than an hour later the band Switchfoot's lead singer Jon Foreman took the stage and shared, "We just got back from touring in South Africa. One thing I noticed was, we are all broken people."

As a single, one of the most common feelings is that of loneliness and feeling incomplete; sort of like something is broken or perhaps just missing. The obvious course of action most singles take is to go looking for love. Which, when you think about it is pretty crazy. I mean, if we are all broken people then bringing another broken person into my life wouldn't make it easier but harder, right? This is where a lot of young marriages hit a brick wall; they expect perfection from a union of two imperfect people. It takes time to sort through all of the baggage and junk in each other's lives. LIFE as one isn't always a bed of roses; it's not such a simple life is it? Remember love is making a way.

I will never forget Ithan Moskowitz message at the Promise Keepers conference in Atlanta, Georgia in 2003. He explained, "Marriage is a lifetime commitment. It's not supposed to work the first two years.....come to me after 50 years and tell me it doesn't work. Marriage is a divine institution, its two people becoming a Siamese twin. There is no going back." Jesus explained, "Two are made one. And no man can separate them (Matthew 19:6, Mark 10:9)." This is why we say, "Until death do us part." That's when God separates them. God can do what we cannot, He is a strong God. Our God is amazing, isn't He?

‘This is why I have a hard time understanding and accepting Christians saying, "If your marriage doesn't get better, then get out. God wants you to be happy, not miserable, really? What happened to no pain, no love? I thought God wanted us to keep our commitments and to glorify Him. What about the message of the cross, when love was slain? Remember, God expects us to SURRENDER our lives and WAIT for Him to WORK IT OUT when we come to the cross. This is how we can live crucified in our relationships, especially in marriage. Remember what the apostle Paul told husbands to do (Ephesians 5:25-30)? Hopefully this blog will help turn the LIGHTS ON for some. This is saying HAVE YOUR WAY to God.

Bill Hybels shares in Honest To God, "An ancient Greek legend tells of a Cyprian king named Pygmalion who found a unique way of solving potential marital differences. He became so frustrated with his inability to find the right woman to marry that he decided to sculpt one out of the most exquisite ivory he could find, he fashioned the woman of his dreams. When he was done, he bowed and prayed. The ivory woman miraculously came to life. Pygmalion took her as his wife and lived happily ever after. It's easy to see why that legend endured. Wouldn't you love to custom-design a wife, or a husband? Wouldn't it be fun to take the chisel and chip away until you had the man or woman of your dreams? That's exactly what many of us try to do to our spouses. For years I tried to chip away at what I thought were Lynne's (his wife) rough edges, those flaws that made her think, or behave, or respond differently from me. I actually believed that if I could just get her to be more like me, we could have a decent marriage. She thought the same about me. We each thought that we were the standard by which all others should be judged." Nobody wants to admit their mistakes.

Every man knows there are times in our relationships when being right isn't worth the argument. And sometimes it's best just to agree to disagree. You've got to put your love glasses on for the sake of peace. Hybels continues, "But God intervened. He used a book called Please Understand Me: Character And Temperament Types by David Keirsey and Marilyn Bates to reveal our mutual DECEPTION... What is an authentic marriage? It's a marriage where differences are seen as blessings, where spouses really feel loved. Where routine gives way to conversation, fun and romance. For some people it seems like a far-off dream. But it's not an impossible goal. Why not renew your commitment to building the kind of marriage God wants you to enjoy."

Let me CLEAR THE AIR for the ladies this applies to you as well, as you are to follow your husband. Even I know not to use the word "submit. “The Hebrew word for follow is לעקוב ("La'akov"). It comes from the word עקבות, which means footsteps in Hebrew ("Akevot"). The meaning of it comes from the idea of following someone’s' footsteps. The word" follow" appears 86 times in the Bible, of which 25 times it's found in the phrase "follow me". Maybe this is where we get the idea for footprints in the sand. Joseph Campbell once noted, "When you make a sacrifice in marriage, you're sacrificing not to each other, but to unity in a relationship." And it is a must from the BOTH OF US.

When we let go of our selfish wants, desires and even dreams we give God more room to work His will in our lives. Again this is why I prefer to grow in love which takes us closer to God, sort of like a love triangle. When we fall in love, GRAVITY takes us the other way. Doesn't it? Instead of marital bliss, you find yourself in marital hell. Growth takes time, especially in marriage, because we are all broken. Jon Foreman continued, "Although we are all broken. Tonight, we are one." This is what this blog will be about, the power of one.

One?

In one of my earlier blogs I shared that my number one pet peeve was Christians that talk the talk, but don't walk the WALK. I have also shared how difficult it has been for me to WALK BY FAITH. James tells me to step to you and you to STEP TO ME, when one of us is FALLIN' away from the truth; as long as we are TEACHING THE TRUTH IN LOVE. You see I'm tired of struggling to live like a Christian and being called a HYPOCRITE, because the PEOPLE OF GOD won't DO WHAT YOU SAY and LIVE TO THE MUSIC. Nor do they understand the principle of ONE, which is what this blog is about and I DARE YOU TO MOVE as I explain the PHENOMENON.

It's like Paul told the church at Corinth, you GOTTA GROW UP. The first principle of one is the TRINITY of God BE THE ONE. The Second principle is the church being made up of many members, but being one Body. And the Final principle is how God takes two individuals and makes them one Flesh. I DON'T CARE what you BELIEVE, whether it's like Oprah or thy word of God. You can CALL ME A CHRISTIAN. Like Joshua, me and my house will serve THE ONE. I know there is no such thing as PERFECT PEOPLE (or is there) and we all have our hidden secrets. But, at least remember Paul's DECLARATION to Timothy and strive for perfection. Trust me, like I stated in another blog none of us are fireproof!

Paul described THIS MYSTERY of how GOD IS BIG and SMALL ENOUGH to be IN ME to the church in Colossae. I mentioned in my last blog how the prophet Moses tells us that in the beginning God created everything and it was UNBELIEVABLE, but He wasn't alone. Moses also tells us that God said “Let us create man in our image. In his book Sex God, Rob Bell tells us that in the Trinity of God is a community; the Father, Son, the Holy Spirit. And they created man in The IMAGE OF themselves and they are a BEAUTIFUL ONE. It was all about community and relationships, it was perfect. Of course until sin entered the picture and that relationship was BROKEN. And every since then man has been trying to reconnect with God. Remember this is how sex is SPIRITUAL BUIZNESS; it is about connecting with someone on an intimate level. How many times have you heard someone say, or have you said, "That the sex was so good it was almost spiritual?" Da, it is regardless of how "good" it is or isn't! It’s all good. Now let me get you back the principle of MY CONSTANT ONE.

Last year at Promise Keepers, Josh McDowell explained what Jesus meant when he said He was the ONLY TRUTH. McDowell said that Webster's dictionary defined truth as that which validates the original. And validate means equal to or same as. So when Jesus said He was the ONE AND ONLY truth, He was saying was that He was the same as or equal to the original. And who is the original? John tells us that when Thomas saw Jesus after the resurrection, Thomas called Him MY LORD AND MY GOD. John goes on to tell us that Jesus' two natures, human and divine, are inseparable. Jesus will forever be the GOD-MAN that healed with ONE TOUCH, fully God and fully human; two distinct natures in one Person. Jesus’ humanity and divinity are not mixed, but are united without loss of separate identity. Jesus sometimes operated with the limitations of humanity. The author of the book of Mark tells us that Jesus prayed in the garden ABBA FATHER take this cup from me; nevertheless, not that I will, but Your will. The apostle Paul encouraged Titus to wait for the coming of our God and SAVIOR, Jesus Christ. Before Jesus left the disciples He assured them He would send them a comforter to guide them.

Later the apostle Paul told the church in Corinth that we see the characteristic of omniscience in the Holy Spirit. “But God has revealed it to us by His Spirit. The Spirit searches all things, even the deep things of God. For who among men knows the thoughts of a man except the man’s spirit within him? In the same way no one knows the thoughts of God except the Spirit of God. So the DEITY of God is a community in Himself and They are the ONE AND THE SAME, somehow this has become the BEST KEPT SECRET. In his Book Sex God, Rob Bell explains that in the Hebrew culture when a man asks a woman to marry him, he would give her a cup of wine to drink and if she accepted it, they were betrothed to be wed. Then he would say, “I must go and prepare a place for us at my father's house. But I will return." Sound familiar? When Jesus started His earthly ministry he surrounded himself with a FEW GOOD MEN to minister with, this inner circle was another community. Matthew tells us that Pontius Pilate told the crowds as they cried "CRUCIFY him" that he found no fault in THIS MAN and washed his hands of His blood. It was their responsibility.

Pontius Pilate was right in so many ways. In his message "THE BLOOD Covenant", Jentzen Franklin quotes Luke in saying that Jesus shed His blood for all who would accept it and believe in Him." The writer of Hebrews tells us that there is no Forgiveness without the shedding of blood. The apostle Paul told the church in Rome that in Christ we who are many form ONE body. He also told the church in Corinth there is a diversity of gifts and services, but THE VERY SAME POWER. Paul went on to tell the church in Ephesus we will in all things grow up into him who is the Head, that is, Christ and from him the whole body, joined and held together by every supporting ligament, grows and builds itself up in love, as each part does its work. John tells us that whoever believes in the son will not perish, but have eternal life.

We are all running the same race Paul told the church in Corinth and Timothy about. The Baptists may be first to the restaurants, but there is no Baptist BOUNCE to Heaven, no Methodist march to CALVARY and no PENTECOSTAL HORSE RACE to the PROMISE OF A LIFETIME. It's time we all COME TOGETHER in a community of UNITY like God planned it in the beginning, it. In his book Stop Dating the church and Fall in Love with the Family of God, Joshua Harris says that Christians plan their whole lives around their jobs, their relationships and their dreams. Where does the church fit into all of this? Harris quotes John Piper in saying that, “Sanctification is a community project.” We need each other to help each other run the race to obtain the eternal crown Paul told the church in Corinth about. King Jesus is coming for His bride which Revelation tells us is the church. A king wears a crown and so does his bride, the church.

In the second part of his message "the Blood covenant" Jentzen Franklin says that The shedding of blood in a Hebrew couples wedding night sealed the deal of marriage. It was so important that the husband would waive the blood stained sheets from the window the next morning to show the crowds that indeed His bride was pure. It seems that even in the church we have forgotten that Marriage is a sacred union created by God, never to be separated IN TWO. The apostle Paul tells me in his first letter to the Corinthians that I can't separate from my wife sexually except for a time of prayer and fasting (not too much of that going on!) He goes on to say we should come back together LEST I FORGET my vow and fall into all kinds of temptation from Satan. The latest Barna polls say that eleven percent of Christian homes end in divorce; twenty-nine percent for the Baptists, twenty-five percent for Mainline Protestants, twenty-one percent for the Catholics. A disturbing trend within the church today is the worldly "try it before you buy it" practice of cohabitation. Statistics tell us that just over fifty percent of cohabitating couples will never hear their WEDDING SONG. Listen to Justin Lookado's reply in his book Datable to most men's question, "Would you buy a car without taking it for a test ride?' Lookado replies that each time you test drive a car it gets more wear and tear. Who wants to pay the full new car price for a used car? He goes on to say that comparing women to cars and marriage to buying a car is ridiculous.

Now people this is a slap to the face of God when we belittle this sacred union of God to a mere relationship, no wonder Paul wrote in his "love" chapter to the church in Corinth, "When I was a child I acted like a child. But when I became a man, I put away childish things." In his book Why True Love Waits, Josh McDowell agrees with the apostle Paul. McDowell goes on to remind us that Christians are to shrug off the appearance of evil; when Christians cohabitate it looks wrong for all of the church. The Bible tells us from Genesis to Revelations only God can take a TABLE FOR TWO and make it into THE ONLY ONE. Marriage is a one time commitment, we need to get it right by doing it right because there is there is ONLY ONE and we can never SAY GOODBYE. This is why I continue to wait, because I don't want to make the MISTAKE OF MY LIFE and I don't believe in DIVORCE. The church needs to understand God hates divorce. Listen to what Jesus had to say to the Pharisees about divorce (Matthew 19:1-10).

Remember the community in the beginning? That was how God planned it, and then He said it is not good for man to be alone, because LOVE IS DIFFERENT. Just like our relationship with Christ you don't just give part of yourself to your spouse, Paul told the church in Corinth when we become one flesh, we say TAKE ALL OF ME, I'm pure and I'm all YOURS. I heard an old story from the Tonight show with Johnny Carson. One night he had a little boy on as a guest that was an open Christian. Johnny asked the little boy what was his favorite Bible story and the boy said, "When Jesus turned the water into wine at a wedding ( Kinda scars me, but that is another blog!)" Then Johnny asked him what he learned from this miracle, the boy's remark is priceless. The little boy said, “If you're planning on having a wedding, be sure to invite Jesus," out of the mouth of babes. He had it right, Christian marriages should be a love triangle with God in the middle keeping them together we can be UP WHERE WE BELONG. After all, God is LOVE.

It's time for Christians to stop playing house and church, it's time to take your VOW, SERIOUSLY. I want to point out that I usually don't quote statistics or polls. To me they are pointless. The old saying is that if it’s not part of the solution, its part of the problem. In his book the Roaring Lambs, Bob Briner explains that the world already knows how bad things are, so why the church should waste God's resources and time to prove what we already knows? Wouldn't it be better to give the world better options? This is why I applaud my friend David A.R. White and the gang at Pureflix productions. The book of John tells us that there may be ONE WORLD; but for the church to be WORLDS APART. Comedian Brad Stine said it best when he said, "The days of the Stephen Christians are over, it's time for the bug-eating camel-skin wearing Christians to RISE UP." The church needs to stand up and be the light it was intended to be, give the world an alternative to all the bad stuff out there; after all Mark tells us to PREPARE YE THE WAY. I can’t forget a quote from evangelist Ken Freeman, my friend Rebbecca once shared with me. Freeman said," If you are not going to live like a Christian, don't tell people you are one."

WAY 2.0?

Here's where the confusion comes from. Most Christians have no problem or fear in declaring their faith, declaring Jesus as the way; but when it comes to living it and following Jesus, that's where the problem begins. Somehow we have veered off course. Jesus makes it clear there are two roads or taos in life, one is a wide road and the other is a NARROW ROAD (Matthew 7: 13) which is a direct reference to a road the prophet Isaiah described (Isaiah 35:8- 10). We believe because we've confessed, "I BELIEVE" that we are on the narrow road automatically. But that's not what the Bible says, is it? Listen to the words of Jesus (Matthew 10:38, Mark 8:34,Luke 9:23); both Jesus and Isaiah describe a path few are able to travel, it's a LONELY ROAD and you can't take all of your worldly possessions along for the ride. In mountain biking we call this type of path a "single track" trail because you must only bike single file behind another biker, there is not enough room on the trail to ride abreast another biker, if you try you are certain to fall off your bike and go TUMBLIN' to the ground. You must follow the biker in front of you. If we choose the path of Jesus, we must start letting go of this world, our dreams and our wants. Only then will we be able to truly follow Jesus. Remember, God will give us new hearts and new dreams that will glorify Him, not ourselves.

John MacArthur explains in Twelve Ordinary Men, "Jesus said, 'Follow me, and I will make you fishers of men (Matthew 4:19).' Scripture says it was at this point that they forsook all and followed Him (Luke 5:11). According to Matthew, Andrew and Peter 'immediately left their nets and followed Him.' From then on, they were inseparable from the Lord." In another story Jesus talks about how hard it is for the rich to go to heaven (Matthew 19:24). But there's hope as Jesus goes on to explain that God makes the IMPOSSIBLE, POSSIBLE.

Have you ever wondered why Jesus used a camel in the story and not a donkey or a horse? Camels store things up in their humps; a camel can store enough fat in their humps to help them survive without food for up to two weeks. Now Jesus had already explained to His disciples about where true riches are (Matthew 6:19). He also explained that He is the eye of the needle or gate as the Jews would understand (John 10:9). Theologian Richard Baxter once noted, "Choose not that in which you may be most rich or honorable in the world; but that in which you may do most good, and best escape sinning." I've said it before, "You can't have your cake and eat it too." We either follow Jesus or we don't. Evangelist and speaker J.C. Ryle said it best, "Follow Christ for His own sake, if you follow Him at all.” Regardless of what our nation and government may say or think, there is only one way to Heaven.

Those of you who know me, know that I don't do politics or care for them. However, after first hearing the Democrats boo my God during their convention, then the next week on the 11th anniversary of 911 pray to Him and ask Him to bless this nation; THIS IS WHERE I DRAW THE LINE. "You see Washington and Hollywood have bought into the lie that they can live and act however you want as long as you do enough good works, it's all good. But, we know that all those good works won't even get them to the edge of heaven. God knows they are FAKIN’. Are they dumb-dumb, or did someone hit the Cray button? I can't help but think that they have been blinded by a POWER TRIP.

Our country says, "We'll never forget the events and sacrifices of 911. However, not much has changed between the days BEFORE AND AFTER, has it? As I was watching videos for this blog, I noticed a lot of secular musicians wearing crosses in their music videos. Now I have NOTHING TO SAY about the WILD ONES other than GETCHA MIND RIGHT. A.W. Tozer notes, "One hundred religious persons knit into acommunity by careful organizations do not constitute a church any more than eleven dead men make a football team. The first requisite is life, always."

COMMUNITY 2.0?

Then I realized maybe WE BLIND, Jesus told us sin blinds when He hung on a cross (Luke 23:33-34). How else can you explain Christians saying things like "O.M.G."? How can we explain the divorce rate in the church surpassing that of secular world? At this point our hearts are as hard as titanium, or even admantium. Maybe this explains why there is so much gossip and backstabbing in the church, we don't really care; gossip and slander are ways to put others down and make ourselves LOOK great. But that is God's job, not ours. No wonder the Bible speaks strongly against this within the church (Proverbs 6:16-19, Proverbs 11:13, Proverbs 16:28, Proverbs 18:8, Proverbs 20:19, Exodus 23:1, Psalm 34:13, Leviticus 19:16, Ephesians 4:29, Romans 1:29, 2 Corinthians 12:20, James 3:7-8, James 1:26). I recently heard someone say, "A whisper in the day can be as loud as thunder at night." When I was growing up the saying was, "Never assume anything, when you do; you make a butt out of you and me."

And then we live like we make no mistakes. Maybe this is why we have turned to our counterfeit gods of marriage, sex, success, our families, fame, money, and reputation; all in the name of our own comfort. But that's not what our Lord meant when he commanded us GO YE and TELL THE WORLD the good news; a message of love. Is it? Is it really about what God and Christianity can "bless" us with? Call me crazy, but I've always wanted someone to love me for me. Not what they can get from me. Let me explain it this way, those of you know me know I'm a helpless romantic; I enjoy a good love song and a sappy “chick” flick. I even get emotional sometimes. Does that constitute it as worship? Certainly not, then how does getting emotional in church make it worship?

We've watered down DISCIPLESHIP to nothing more than talking to each other about each other and then we call it community worship. Jesus spent 18 to 24 months discipling the disciples and they still didn’t get it. Yet, we expect people to understand after an 18 to 24 second prayer; most of my life I've been told that it's my job as Christian to “catch” people with the gospel and God cleans them. This couldn't be further from the truth, Jesus told us to make disciples: God catches them and we clean them by discipleship. Discipleship and worship means following Jesus. Sometimes we forget the church is made of imperfect sinners, we are FRIENDS, LIARS, HATERS, so PUT YOUR LOVE GLASSES ON or take off your IHEART JESUS SHIRT.

Pastor and sociologist Tony Campolo explains, ""We have met the enemy and they are partly right." Jesus once said that only the truth can set us fully free to be His people (John 8:32). The painful truth is that atheism has a foothold today in part because there have been many times in history when people of Christian faith (or marching beneath some other religion's flag) have sinned boldly against God and people. Whether by ignorance, pride, greed, or some other deadly sin, they have repeated the very atrocities by which ostensibly religious people crucified Jesus because He threatened their institutional power or personal throne."

Bill Hybels continues in Honest to God, "Our wise God designed spiritual growth to be a cooperative venture that requires the involvement of other believers. That means significant relationships are not luxuries for believers they're absolute necessities. I'm not talking about conventional friendships based on ending loneliness or having fun--- friendship centered around golf for business or shopping expeditions. I'm talking about relationships centered on producing Christian character. This is the kind of friendship Paul described when he counseled believers to watch out for one another, warn one another, challenge one another, admonish one another, rebuke one another (Romans 12:9-16)." Indian poet and philosopher Muhammad Iqbal explains, "Rise above sectional interests and private ambitions... Pass from matter to spirit. Matter is diversity; spirit is light, life and unity."


Paul, Allen, Randy, brother Steve and Tony this is why I NEED YOU even if we don't always agree. Likewise, brother Garvin, Jon, Nico and pastor Brady, I will need you if and when I ever make it back to Colorado. A wise man once explained it to me this way, "I don't like everything on the menu at Ryan's steakhouse, but I still eat there." Listen to how the apostle Paul puts it (Romans 15:1 Corinthians 9:21, Galatians 6:2), I must BEAR WITH YOU. There's too much pride and reputation in the church, instead we must GET HUMBLE if we are going to serve God together. Swiss theologian and priest Hans Urs von Balthasar once noted, "Even if a unity of faith is not possible, a unity of love is." We have each been bought with love.. the love of God's amazing grace and its SUPER NATURAL. Early church founder and theologian Athanasius noted, "We share in the divine nature through our sharing of the Spirit."

Paul makes it clear that at the moment salvation we are a new creation and adopted into the family of God as a result of being crucified with Christ (Romans 6:4, Romans 16:10, 2 Corinthians 5:17, Galatians 6:15,Ephesians 4:24) and within this family we take on a new name, the name of Christ followers, Christians. Isn't that why we all wear crosses, as a sign of unity within the body? Maybe this is why the world and Hollywood doesn't get it. As a single man I eagerly await the day I hear my pastor say, "I now present to you Mr. and Mrs. Martin Thomas Johnson." It will be the first time since my parents died eight years ago. Every man longs to hear his bride take his last name as her own, it's a sign of unity... it's something new. A NEW LIFE together as one and we FEEL SO CLOSE. It's a lot like a Peloton in cycling, together as a group the cyclists are more aerodynamic and can go faster and further, we can’t just LOOK LIKE LOVE.

In his book Stop Dating The Church, Joshua Harris explains," If Christ did bring new life as He said, Christians should be living differently than non-Christians. Don't you agree? Of course we don't always do it perfectly but we should do everything possible to keep our light shining brightly in a dark world, on display for all to see. Part of the local church's job is to distinguish those who believe and those who don't-- to show what it means to truly follow Christ. That's also why a local church must maintain certain uniquely Christian practices given us by Jesus... Baptism- shows those who have been saved and have identified with the death and resurrection of Christ ( Matthew 28:19, Romans 6:4). The Lord's supper -- shows those who are continuing in fellowship with Christ and remembering His death until His return (Matthew 26:26- 29)."

But as in marriage, this requires death and dying to our wants.. Our "rights". This was the prayer and heart of our Lord Jesus for His bride (John 17:23). Because of this the world will know it MUST BE LOVE. Paul goes on to say if we follow Jesus' sacrifice, like His ours will be like a FRAGRANCE that pleases God ( Romans 15:16, Ephesians 5:2, Philippians 4:18). There is no need for a zombie apocalypse, the church is the living dead; which is something to think about since Halloween is in thirty days. Author A. Blake White note, "Evangelism is indeed an act of worship. It is an act of worshipful obedience to the Great Commission of the risen Christ."

At this point I could debate whether it is more appropriate to pray or worship standing or kneeling. But it’s not worth the division within’ the church,even I know when to just agree to disagree. The church should be indivisible, it’s living crucified that empowers me to give forgiveness. That’s why personally I prefer the latter since it is an act of humility and puts God in His rightful place, above me. Especially when I need a miracle; remember Pygmalion and the statue he made?

Nevertheless Christian apologetic Ravi Zacharias said it best, “Worship is a posture of life that takes as its primary purpose the understanding of what it really means to love and revere God.” Paul makes it clear to worship is to SACRIFICE (Romans 12:1-3). This is why the apostle Paul often informed the church he was being, “Poured out like a drink offering (Philippians 2:17, 2 Timothy 4:6)."Your sacrifice is proof of your love. Again, Christianity isn't a works-based faith.. It's a results-based faith; our sacrifice is a result of the change that God through the death of Jesus.

To the Jews the drink offerings were to be composed of “strong wine” (Numbers28:7), which would answer to the animal sacrifices having to be without blemish, perfect in all respects (Lev.22:17-25). Worship is about so much more than just a love song for a savior, it's more than a ROUND OF APPLAUSE for our Savior, King. As John Piper explains, "God is pursuing with omnipotent passion a worldwide purpose of gathering joyful worshipers for Himself from every tribe and tongue and people and nation. He has an inexhaustible enthusiasm for the supremacy of His name among the nations. Therefore, let us bring our affections into line with His, and, for the sake of His name, let us … join His global purpose."

It's easy to just sing a song and call it worship, but dieing to self and trusting God with the results is pretty tough and maybe even a little radical. It’s easy to post "Christian" comments or pictures on Facebook, but it's hard to be a true picture of Christ in a dieing, depraved world which makes us a NIGHT LIGHT. As I die to myself, I become a true WORSHIPER. So GO and light up the world.

BUMP THIS , no wonder we've watered it down to nothing more than praise and singing. Worship in our time has been captured by the tourist mind set. The psalmist tells us that all creation sings praise to God (Psalm 69:34, 148:1 -15), but only we get to worship Him with our lives. However, worship is understood as a visit to an attractive site to be made when we have adequate leisure. For some it is a weekly jaunt to church; for others, occasional visits to special services. Some with a bent for Christian entertainment and sacred diversion, plan their lives around special events like retreats, rallies and conferences. We go to see a new personality; to hear a new truth, to get a new experience. And so somehow, expand our otherwise humdrum lives. We'll try anything -- until something else comes along. You see worship is a lifestyle change that comes with the new life we have been given and there's the problem. For most of us nothing's changed. But we have our fire insurance, don't we?

Pastor J. Hampton Keathley III explains, "The world observes the behavior and life of the church. When the church acts no differently than the world, it loses its credibility and authenticity. Maybe this is why the world is trying to SHUT US DOWN, They can't tell the difference. I know that that sounds pretty grim and WE DON’T WANNA HEAR IT, especially in these hard times we all are living in. Perhaps this is why all of this sugar-coated theology is so popular, we all learned as children a spoon full of sugar makes the medicine go down. The Bible tells us that when WE ARE YOUNG, we crave spiritual milk.

But as we mature we need to crave meat (1 Corinthians 3:2 I, 1 Peter 2:2, Hebrews 5:12-13). And you know how much I enjoy meat. Men and women of God it's time to MAN UP and eat meat. It doesn't matter how old you are or how long you've been a Christian; as long as you are still breathing, you'll never "arrive" to full maturity in Christ. That will be the day when we all get to heaven. Paul goes on to tell us that nothing can separate us from the love of God (Romans 8:38-39.) Sound familiar? It may feel like we are losing, but we know we are winning.

In a recent message by Bill Purvis he explained, the world hates the church and wants to get rid of us. But they fail to realize the church is the SALT, LIGHT that preserves the earth." As long as we're here, God won't STOP THE WORLD from turning; when it does, for the Christian the end is the beginning. For the Bible is clear we will all die one time (Hebrews 9:27) and heaven waits for me.

Heaven 3.0?

As I end this blog, LET’S GO out with the real good stuff. For the church, those who have been truly "crucified" with Christ, we know we'll fly away to be reunited with our Lord in the air. I don't know about you but this is what excites me the most about being a Christian, not having "blessings" in this life; but knowing one day I'll fly away and leave the troubles of this world, my mistakes and pain behind gives me tremendous joy knowing in heaven MY BEAT GOES ON as He take me into the beautiful. I’ll finally be HOME where MY REDEEMER LIVES, Whom I worship.

I've spent the last 15 years of my life living with a disability; in a sense my body is broken, sweetly broken. I anxiously await my new body. You may want you to STAND still and sing hallelujah; our PRAISE, PARTY ROCK ANTHEM to God. TURN UP THE MUSIC , I'll be in my lane and I'm gonna DANCE WITH MY FATHER. I'm gonna DANCE LIKE DAVID as I CRY HOLY and GO CRAZY. I may even be the only SK8R baby there. There won’t be any Baptists, Methodists, Presbyterians or Catholics there, just all of God’s children. Sons and daughters, I may have to get another dance in with you Red. The Angel tells John, there will be a huge CELEBRATION in my city and for John to fall to his knees and worship God (Revelation 19:1-10). But we must GIVE YOU THE GLORY, Lord.

John continues as the UNDEFEATED ones worship Jesus, God will shake heaven like an EARTHQUAKE and there will be a LIGHT SHOW ( Revelation 21:1-Revelation 22:27) so amazing we won't even need the sun as we spend eternity worshiping the King forever as one.





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